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SCORCHIO: Top tips for birthing in a heatwave

Siobhan Ridley

Photo by Ignacio Campo on Unsplash

Well isn't this British summer shaping up to be utterly glorious!! I'm not going to lie, I was traditionally English about the weather and have been awaiting a prophetic forecast of endless rain and Autumnal like temperatures. However, the browning grass in my garden and the endless blue skies have convinced me that old Helios is here to stay. So here I am, committing to flip flops and baring my hobbit feet. Sorry about that.

Both my babies are summer born. One human arrived in a record breaking hot June and the other human arrived during heavy downpours and punishing winds. Labour in the heat isn't piňa coladas and palm trees (unless you live in the tropics!). It's hot and sweaty and it's really important to maintain your energy. So here are my top tips to keep cool and energised.

 

1. FANS...all the fans

If you don't want your windows open whilst you labour at home, fill your house/flat with fans to keep the air moving and to provide cooling. Your midwife may well turn the fans off as you baby starts to arrive so that it isn't cold for your new tiny human. Those little battery-op hand fans connected to water bottles are great too as they blow a cooling mist around you that you may find less abrupt than a facial spritz. If/when you choose to transfer to hospital you can pop your portable cooling device in your bag. Tiger have them for sale for £3.

2. Cooling spray

A spray bottle with water in it is great for misting your face and refreshing you. You can get some really lovely facial spritzers with essential oils or you can make your own. Essential oils can be a great calming aid and reassuring emotional anchor. DO seek advice from a trained aromatherapist though as they will advise you on dilution proportions and appropriate essential oils for labour.

3. Cold water

Fill up some water bottles with water and have them in the fridge ready for labour. Don't forget that a straw in a bottle makes sipping water far easier as oppose to glugging. It also means your birth partner can just pop the straw into your mouth every now and then without having to interrupt your labouring flow.

4. Ice lollies*

Labour food is super important for keeping those energy reserves up. Pre-make lovely fresh fruit ice lollies and pop them in the freezer ready for sucking on in labour. You can purchase DIY ice lolly holders from most supermarkets and budget stores.

5. Frozen melon and frozen grapes*

Sugary, watery, cooling labour snack. Yumm! Chop up some honey dew melon (avoid watermelon as the pips will get pretty annoying!) and pop it in a tup or zip lock bag in the freezer. If you want to get all fancy you can even bring that melon baller your mother gave you from the 70s out of retirement. Chop grapes in half (long ways) before freezing too.

6. Flannels

Have a pile of flannels on hand for labouring at home so that a member of your birth squad can pop one under the cold tap and mop your brow or place them on your wrists and the back of your neck. Pop extra flannels in your birth bag for any hospital transfer. As a doula I go through quite a few flannels when I support a birth as they are often the overlooked birth bag must have.

7. Bath, shower, birth pool

Use water to cool you. Of course, you are unlikely to want to sit in a cold bath, but a tepid bath or shower will cool you down. Depending on where you are, what you have access to and your labouring situation will depend on what of those aquatic solutions you opt for. If you are birthing in water, the temperature will need to be warmer (34 – 37 C) your baby's arrival.

8. Clothing

Of course, you don't need to wear anything in labour. Although you might want to pop something on if you're moving to hospital. If you do choose to wear clothes, keep them lightweight, loose fitting and easy to remove if you get too warm.

9. After a hospital or maternity unit birth

Most maternity units and delivery suits are air conditioned or have fans. However, if you need to stay in the ward after you've had your baby, you may find that the they're not as well ventilated or cooled. So keep your flannels, hand fans and cool drinks on hand.

 

* A note about labour food: If you pop any pre-made things in the freezer, do make your birth partner aware of what you have prepared and where it is so that you don't have to give rummaging directions in the midst of labour. (I am totally assuming everyone has the 'lucky dip' freezer stacking style that I do). If you are planning on birthing in the hospital, pop a cool bag in the freezer so that your birth partner can decant your frozen snacks into the bag when he/she is preparing the rest of your bags for your transfer.

 

In the UK, we're not that used to roasting hot weather and even the non-pregnant among us can turn into sweaty, lethargic puddles. When you're pregnant, you have additional weight and blood flow which can make hotter temperatures more intolerable. But being hot in labour is not dangerous if it's just due to weather/air temperature and of course, you can be easily cooled. So get your retro on and dig out that melon baller, make some icey snacks (try not to eat them all BEFORE labour) and stay cool as a cucumber.

ABOVE ALL, be calm and confident. You've got this! You've been preparing for the day, you're going to meeting your baby soon, Yay!

SNOW BABY: Top tips for preparing for a snowy labour

Siobhan Ridley

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How gorgeous has this snow been?! My garden actually looks tidy, haha. However, snow isn't great for everyone and we're not the best equipped country when it comes to dealing with a bit of inclement weather. This got me thinking that for those of you who are waiting on a tiny human, it can add an additional worry. It is therefore more important than ever to make small adjustments to your preparations in case your uterus decides this little one is going to be a snow baby.

I've written this particularly with those in mind who are travelling to the hospital/maternity unit to birth their baby. 

 

JOBS FOR BIRTH PARTNERS

THE CAR

To do in the days before

  • Ensure that you have everything for DE-ICING the car actually IN the car so it's easy to hand for journeys both to and from the hospital.

  • Check lights, water in jets, keep petrol TOPPED up. 

  • Keep an eye on encroaching weather...I mean, don't go all out weather nerd but be mindful of any weather warnings.

 

When she goes into labour

  • Start preparing the CAR a good 45mins to 1hour before your intended departure time from home to the hospital:

    • Clear driveway

    • De-ice

    • Check traffic warnings on your route.

    • Hot water bottle on the passenger seat

    • Start the engine to get it all toasty warm

    • Pack lots of towels and blankets

    • Pack the car with all the bags

  • Fully charge PHONES and take all the chargers.

  • Allow plenty of TIME for the car journey. It's a tricky balance, you don't want to leave home any sooner than necessary but you need to account for traffic delays and slow labour-sensitive driving speed.

  • Drive SLOWLY to hospital.

  • Drop mum off at the hospital entrance so she avoids the slippy walk from wherever you park the car. She can also go inside and stay in the warmth.

 

FOR MUMS/MUMS-TO-BE

Waiting for baby

  • In this snowy weather, avoid taking unnecessary journeys in the car and if you do travel ensure your SEAT BELT is positioned properly over your lap and around your bump. Take BLANKETS and snacks in the car and don't travel without a fully charged phone. Phone/text someone before you leave and when you arrive so they know you have arrived safely.

  • In this weather, also avoid walking anywhere too slippy and if you do go out for a walk wear super warm and GRIPPY shoes.

  • If it's your estimated due date or after, and your birth partner is at work despite the snow, consider asking a close relative or friend to come and hang out with you or pop in to say hi. If you do go into labour, you'll have SUPPORT and company whilst you wait for your birth partner to return home (as delays in this weather are possible).

  • Put out lots of warm clothing to pop on before leaving for the hospital/MU.

  • Pack lots of warm clothes for you and baby for the return home.

  • Hot water bottles and snuggly socks. All. Day. Long.

     

Your birthing day

  • Leave dealing with the weather to your birth partner. Your job is to hang out in your oxytocin bubble and ride those contractions (surges).

  • Remember to use your DEEP RELAXATION tools (breathing, visualisations, happy place, self hypnosis etc) particularly for the transition from home to hospital.

  • If at any point you have concerns about your situation phone your midwife.

  • If you're in labour and it becomes apparent that the weather is going to be very disruptive, phone the midwife and perhaps phone 111 or 999 (if it's emergency) in order to have an ambulance at the ready.

     

ABOVE ALL, stay calm and confident. You've got this! You've been preparing for the day, don't let a few snowflakes wobble you, you're going to meeting your baby soon, Yay!